Yes, my son came a little bit as a surprise, haha! In China we call it Yuan Fen, which means something like destiny. He turned out to be very easy, open, curious and strong. So we thought: this baby stuff is not that difficult, we can do this. Half a year ago our baby girl as born, who turned out to be totally different. She is more sensitive, a little bit scared, and she can cry very loud. But if I hold her she’s okay. It’s not just because of corona that I don’t go out anymore.”
“People may think that every Chinese person eats dogs and is a communist party member, which is ridiculous. I think 99.9 per cent never eats dog, just like me. And I’m not into Chinese politics. Eating dog meat is limited to some specific areas with specific traditions. People also they think they know Chinese food because they’ve eaten in a Chinese restaurant here. The food actually differs quite a lot from region to region. What amazed me is that hardly anyone knows about the real size and different areas of China. Not everything is close to Beijing, haha! My wife and I are both from China, but we were born 2000 kilometers apart. That’s roughly from here to Greece.”
“A quarter of all publications in Nature, Science and Cell originate in China. So if you think these journals are of good quality… these are good papers. China is so big, and has so many researchers, of course there will be someone who is careless or cheating. At the same time, I think some Chinese researchers might not be properly trained for what they are doing. China’s research funds have increased immensely in a time period of around thirty years, and the researchers are still the researchers. They do what they can. In general, it is improving.”
“For me, scientific knowledge is something that shouldn’t belong to one country. This discussion of stealing knowledge is more a political one about competition and power, in which America bullies a country if it competes with their technological systems. As for spying: America is the best. China is probably also spying but not as successful as America, because we all use American systems, which are monitored by America, according to Edward Snowden.”
“I think it is a bit like multidisciplinary research: people with different professional backgrounds have diverse knowledge they can combine. It is the same with personal backgrounds of researchers: they can combine their forces, have interesting discussions and be very innovative together.”
“When I came here, I felt a bit like everyone else. Since the pandemic, I feel more like an outsider. I have been stared at a lot, especially when I wore a facemask before it was mandatory. Man, it took the Dutch government só long to decide this! There was a lot of fear among Chinese people at the time, because of the reports about aggression. ‘You should go back to China’, someone said to me while I was buying some groceries for my family. And a stranger greeted me at a traffic light with ni hao. This was nót just a ‘hi’. Recently a guy on a scooter stopped and said: ‘Hey Chinese guy, do you have the coronavirus?’ The biased reports in the Dutch media might have been responsible for these things.”
“I was shocked. I haven’t learned how to respond to things like this. I think I said: ‘goedenavond’ or something. Luckily, most of my negative experiences are just about words. One exception is the night someone kicked our door, shouting ‘Chinese virus, fuck China, go back to China!’ He broke the door and fled.”
“We have never felt anything like it. My wife and 2-year-old son were so scared, he was crying like hell. To see this broken door, glass all over the floor, I could not believe this was really happening. Again, I felt like I was living in a movie… My wife is strong, but she’s still a bit scared and feels unsafe. We have three locks on our door, and I have to call her before I go home so she can open them for me. She wasn’t like that before.”
If you leave, you feel like a victim. I feel like Chinese people should speak up, fight back against racist people, to unite and have a shared story. I believe that if you fight, than you can deserve something. If you just wait, nothing may ever happen.”